Some how it was still holding the old config of googlemail. i have reloadxml, relaodacl and reload mod_sofia.
now it is showing this info inroot@gw:/var/log/astpp# tail -f /var/log/mail.log
Mar 17 19:41:31 gw sm-mta[10683]: 22HJfVVq010683: Saved message in /var/lib/sendmail/dead.letter
Mar 17 19:43:15 gw sm-mta[7908]: 22G1O1IG011132: to=info@unidaysconsultants.com, delay=1+18:19:14, xdelay=00:17:28, mailer=esmtp, pri=8581610, relay=mx1.pub.mailpod10-cph3.one.com. [104.37.34.70], dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with mx1.pub.mailpod10-cph3.one.com.
Mar 17 19:43:15 gw sm-mta[7908]: 22H0g6e9013319: to=info@mydomain.com, delay=18:17:29, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=9390000, relay=mydomain.com., dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with mydomain.com.
Mar 17 19:43:15 gw sm-mta[7908]: 22H0g6eA013319: to=info@mydomain.com, delay=18:17:29, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=9390000, relay=mydomain.com., dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with mydomain.com.
Mar 17 19:43:15 gw sm-mta[7908]: 22GNKw75016220: to=test@mydomain.com, delay=20:22:16, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=10650499, relay=mail.agileops.co.uk., dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with mail.agileops.co.uk.
Mar 17 19:43:15 gw sm-mta[7908]: 22GNO7tE005383: to=test@mydomain.com, delay=20:19:08, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=10650501, relay=mail.agileops.co.uk., dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with mail.agileops.co.uk.
Mar 17 19:43:15 gw sm-mta[7908]: 22GNJ1rc016028: to=info@mydomain.com, delay=20:24:14, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=10651572, relay=mydomain.com., dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with mydomain.com.
Mar 17 19:45:12 gw sm-mta[10196]: 22H8s1i1009608: to=irfan@accounting.com, delay=10:51:11, xdelay=00:08:44, mailer=esmtp, pri=4081560, relay=accounting-com.mai…ction.outlook.com. [104.47.57.110], dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with accounting-com.mail.protection.outlook.com.
Mar 17 19:45:12 gw sm-mta[10196]: 22H5M6cB028893: to=info@mydomain.com, delay=14:01:17, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=6600000, relay=mydomain.com., dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with mydomain.com.
Mar 17 19:45:12 gw sm-mta[10196]: 22H5C6cB028478: to=info@mydomain.com, delay=14:11:17, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=6690000, relay=mydomain.com., dsn=4.0.0, stat=Deferred: Connection timed out with mydomain.com.